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Richard's avatar

Years ago I took classes for Transcendental Meditation, and that included "let your mind wander" as you describe. I need to practice it more today. Thanks Franklin.

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Franklin O'Kanu's avatar

🙏 You’re more than welcome my good sir!

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CM Maccioli's avatar

No, Richard, thank you.

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CM Maccioli's avatar

Richard just reminded me of Transcendental Meditation, thanks Richard. Every night, as a wind down, I go to my room and talk to my family. "Hi Ma. Daddy, can you take care of the boys while I shop. Juanita, I'm making apple crisp for you. Connie, lets go shopping. Roger, I miss you so much". I talk out loud to my lost family remembering so much that I no longer have.

For years I cursed God for taking my husband away from me. One night, I started crying and couldn't stop asking God to forgive me for blaming Him. In a sudden quiet moment I realized that God put him in my path, a man whom I could not pass by and He gave me 30 years of the greatest man I have ever met. This is what happens to me when my mind has nothing to do.

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Franklin O'Kanu's avatar

❤️ thanks for sharing this beautiful moment CM! Such a beautiful presence to enter into when the mind is silent

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CM Maccioli's avatar

I ask God to bring them back to me as I sleep. He never does. I do not dream.

Silly me. He has better things to do. He knows they are all with me in my bedroom.

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Mel Remple's avatar

I have a card that says: ‘The quieter you become the more you will see.’ Same idea. 🫶

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The librarian's avatar

A funny thing I noticed a long time ago was whenever I was using my arms like sweeping, gardening, raking, dishes, showering is when the great ideas come to me. Seems to open up the flow. Walking seems to attract other ideas.

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Franklin O'Kanu's avatar

Agreed! This article was a result from my walk!

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Elle Diem's avatar

Wonderful article, thank you.

An idea occurred to me while reading it when we aren't *participating* in the flow of thought but sort of idling beside it -- like we might do on a sunny afternoon sitting in the grass beside a stream; or sitting on the front porch, watching a storm roll by -- we're in a better position to *observe* (rather than just react to it) and as you say, "connect the dots." For me this is when I walk with my dogs :-)

Enjoying everyone else's observations too.

Thanks again

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